Dealing with Teenage Emotions

Probably one of the most common problems a teenager has to deal with is their self-esteem. Now that I am a mother to a teenage daughter, I know how it feels like to be constantly reminding my child she is beautiful.

With all the media going around showing how thin and flawless a lady should look like, teenagers can easily fall in to the prey of believing that they are not perfect.

For instance, a simple pimple outbreak already makes her uncomfortable. On the other hand, I also consider her feeling because even with my age right now, I still experience pimple outbreaks every so often. It can truly make you feel self-conscious knowing that you have a big zit on your face. Even if we say it’s normal, we can’t help but feel embarrassed.

Fortunately, there are treatments available to help alleviate these breakout. You just have to choose the best acne treatment that will work best on your skin. Coupled with good nutrition and proper hygiene, those embarrassing pimples can be gone for good. With my daughter, we have found an over the counter treatment for her but since she still is going through puberty, the problem still recurs but it can be managed.

I guess for a parent such as myself, managing the acne outbreaks is easier than managing my girl’s self esteem. Petty as it may sound, but if parents would miss these signs, it can result to a life time of regret. Children especially teenagers should grow with a positive self-concept and parents play a big role in developing this. Studies have shown that self-esteem plays a vital role in the happiness and success of our children.

So I never neglect the opportunity to voice out my positive feelings to my children. It’s always easier to remember those negative remarks when they feel down and insignificant. On the other hand, if they often hear positive remarks from parents, they will feel loved and important.

With growing children, I believe that words spoken are more important than actions, they need to be able to hear the words. So the next time your child presents you with a job well done, be quick and generous in praising them.